Infographic: Movies to watch this summer

Movies are a fun way to pass time but what happens if deciding what to watch becomes a hell of an headache? You get confused and you need someone to make the decision for you. Confused about what to watch this summer?

Here is an infographic to help you make the decision. Lets hope it helps rather then informing you of movies you din't know and make the matters worse!

Are long distance relationships worth a try?

Relationships are hard but when you find someone you can share all your quirks with, that is one of the most beautiful yet fearsome moment of your life. Well most of you must be wondering why fearsome. The human mind is a very special thing. When it doesn't have what it wants, it tries out everything to help you get it but as soon as the moment arrives, it starts building the fear of loosing it which is based upon the desire to get it. More the desire, more is the fear.

To cut through this wall of fear, we like to have our loved and dear ones as nearby as possible because we always believe that if someone is near to us physically, we can keep them with us emotionally as well. While that may be true in most cases, sometimes the closer two people are, the more are the chances of them getting separate. This may happen because of a fight or some serious incompatibility or maybe just because they have lost interest(Yes, this happens too!).

Some people believe that having a long distance relationship is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. All the wondering, distrust, waiting and hoping all to be fine, makes the process quite hard. And this distance, wondering and hoping becomes a perfect setting for most relations to become a sting rather than a salve. This notion of a tiresome relation has led the idea of long-distance relationships become stereotypical nightmare. Many people feel the need to let someone go from their life just because they fear a long distance relationship but many people make a case, pretty good one in fact, in favor of long distance relationship. All this confusion and thoughts started making me wonder, "Are long distance relationships worth a try?".

The idea of being away from someone you love and not being able to see them each day is surely horrifying but people also say and believe that love becomes more passionate when you stay apart. Many feel that wondering and waiting sometimes makes it annoying enough to spark such fights which can end a relationship while many believe that all the wait makes each word worthy of a thousand emotions. Also sometimes a break from your partner's presence can revitalize the passion and love a relationship should have for when they are present with you.

Also sometimes not being with someone physically poses the risk of you not being able to frankly share your problems or desires with them easily. This might be true but if you trust someone to trust you and love you for what you are, sooner or later the wall of awkwardness gets holed through.

The most horrifying and crippling fear in a long distance relationship is the one of losing your partner, your love to someone else because you can't be with them for every problem of theirs making them forcefully dependent on someone else, at least sometimes, which can lead to a new spark in their life making you a third leg. While this fear is well justified, a person should understand that even if two people are together, you can not control them. That's just not how relationship works. Even if you are what they want or they are what you want, eventually you two are bound to be drifted apart and a very small thing can spark the chain reaction leading to the breakup. The trust is THE MOST IMPORTANT ingredient in a successful relationship and, with its presence, a relationship can go one forever even if the passion is lost.

After some thought I realized one thing that the question can not be answered in a straight "YES!" or a "No" as no two people are ever alike, no two relationships are alike as well. While people stereo-typically think the answer to this question to be a No, what they don't realize is that when it comes to love and romance, there is no rule to be successfully happy forever after. A couple isn't made of one single entity, instead it requires a rigorous and continuous devotion of two towards each other. As far as the idea of long distance relationships go, if two people have trust, passion, understanding, acceptance, will and love in between them than they can cross every bridge, go through every hole and jump every hoop life and time throws at them. Well, what do you think?

P.S. : Internet is also a pre-requisite and an easy availability these days. ;)

The Naked Truth

Reviews are very critical to success and growth of any industry. But it is surely very critical to the hotel industry because visitors invest their money as well as their emotions when they come over to stay in a hotel and with the rise of internet and social media over the years, many people first read reviews related to a particular tourist destination or hotel and then decide about their visit and trip. But many a times i have wondered who actually takes time to write a review?

To answer this and many other related questions regarding the Hotel Reviews, Olery, a company that helps Hotels maintain their image and reputation, has come with an infographic which provides some terrific insights.

A letter to a rapist!

A letter to a rapist!!


Dear Rapist,
A big warm Thank you for your contribution to my city. Girls are afraid now. Again. They always were. I hope your Mother and Sisters are not aware of your generous work. I hope. As they may attempt suicide or may go through mental stress for having any kind of relation with you. I pity them.

So you raped another girl. Ha! Kudos. Proud of yourself? No no, you should be. You should be proud of yourself for destroying a girl's life COMPLETELY. Now she can never move around in the society freely. No one will marry her if it matters. No why will it matter to you.Sorry for bothering you but can I ask why did you choose this profession? Like is it your family business or you started it and then invited members to join you? Also why do you have this urge to have sex with every other girl in town? Masturbate na. Please. Why are you destroying people's life. Or there is a better solution, Marry. That way you won't even have to do any such criminal act and your wife will also be happy. Although who will marry a depraved pervert like you.

I sympathise with the victim. Because Her only fault was breathing. Right? She was breathing so you got this sudden urge of raping her. Don't give me those lame excuses that she was wearing a short skirt or a backless top or was exposing too much. Both of us know what the truth is. So now what next. Do you think you will survive or are you afraid of punishment? No you aren't afraid of any sort of punishment because if you were, you wouldn't have raped the girl in the first place. So the former one is the case. You think our rules and our government will help you in surviving. Indeed they do. But when you do such things nowadays na, what happens is social media pressurizes the government to take action. Asap. And yes each one of us is praying, more like begging from god that people like you should be gifted with death for your generous and kind contribution to society.

Did you even think of the girl's father for once? If not please do think. Think of that father who didn't even allow his daughter to put a foot on this earth when she went to a mela with him and instead carried her on his shoulders. Think of that father who went everywhere with his daughter for admissions to schools ,institutes and colleges so that she doesn't have to face any sort of problems that he probably faced. Think of that father who loved his daughter more than his life. But why will you. You destroyed everyone's life dear, everyone's fucking life. Just because of your lovely thoughts and perverted mind. Beta tera to kuch nahi bigda but she has to live with the memory of what happened to her. You abused her physically as well as mentally. I ponder sometimes, has shame disappeared from the society, is this the same Indian culture culture that hails women as goddesses in temples. People like you force me to think so.

So yeah, now you are probably thinking that nothing will happen and no one can find you? Like the Guwahati molestation case? Trust me I am worried about that too. But believe you me and the millions of other guys and girls who support me, we WILL FUCKING ENSURE THAT you get the right punishment, which is castration and then life time imprisonment until death. We don't want you to be hanged. Hanging till death would be too easy for you. We want to engender this fear that if anyone does any such thing in future, he is choosing hell for himself. A living fucking hell. We Do Not want this case to be treated like any other rape case. We want the government to take action. Asap. Have some shame fucker. And yes be AFRAID of us bitch. I remember this quote of Naseeruddin Shah. I want to twist it a bit: Ye guwahati, dilli , bus me, train me, ye sab rape ke case nahi hai, ye ek sawal hai aur wo sawal ye hai ki bhai hum to yunhi rape karte rahenge tum kya kar loge. Yes they asked this question. And we have to reply. WE HAVE TO REPLY STRONGLY!!

I Remember

Hey guys,
This is something i wrote about 2 years back portraying a guy who really likes a girl but is so afraid of losing her even as his best friend that he is never able to confess what he feels deep inside him for her. They have had a fight and he is trying to make her up with this.

I remember the times when you scolded me for hurting myself,
Because it did hurt you more,
When one of us wrote missing you,
And the other replied miss you more.

I remember the times when we talked all night long,
about the stupid things,
when we did discuss,
about the cupid things.

I remember the times when we shared every laugh,
Because the other one's smile more did matter,
When we shared every single feeling and every single secret,
Because the mutual trust a lot does matter.

I remember the times when we wanted to be together all day long,
Because we were d best mates,
When we laughed on each other,
For remembering silliest dates.

I wish the days would come back,
And we won't be having the time lack.
I wish we will do the fun again,
And ease each others smallest pain.

I wish we will again do the same,
The things that are insane.
I wish we will b together forever,
And be best friends forever....

Hope you like it and appreciate the concept :)

As always, comments and suggestions, if any, are more then welcome :)

Should I

This is something i wrote a long while back.
Its one of my starting poems and portrays a guy who loves his girl but is worried about the problems they are having.
Lets see if i was able to convey what i was thinking when i wrote it 2.5 years back. :)


Should i be away,
Or should i be this way,
Should i be on my own,
Or should i be never known,

Should i love more the person i love the most,
Or should i become a haunting ghost,
Should i take my last breath,
Or should i leave it to someone to gift me death,

Should i be there for you always,
Or should i let you handle it your ways,
Should i let you live free,
Or should i give u the best of me,

Should we become us,
Or should we leave this fuss,
Should i ask you for a dance,
Or should i be satisfied with your beautiful glance,

Now i leave every decision on you,
Because my everythng is you,
My girl,You decide my life's ways,
Because your love will be my guide always,

I want you to decide for me,
Cause you are the one that understands the most of me,
Lets do it for the sake of me,
So that i don't have to again plea,

I wish i never had to accept this confusion,
bt now i think i have to come out of my dungeon,
Your are the only one for me,
My love won't ever let you set me free.....

So Guys, please comment and tell how did you find it and suggestions, if any, are more then welcome :)

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